And if you were to ask my friends, they would probably put me near the top of the list in terms of desire or sexual appetite in general, but I’m not really interested in experimenting. I consider myself a really sexually-charged person. Trying kinky stuff isn’t really something of interest to me.
And we had sex frequently we didn’t live together but pretty much every time we saw each other we had sex. I’ve had un-meaningful sex before and I’ve had a decent amount of meaningful sex and I think for me, it’s just always better when there’s a deeper connection. But it was mostly that we cared about each other. There were a couple times when we would travel and be in a hotel or something and we’d be extra frisky because it was a new place. I mean I think it was just the bedroom or maybe the shower.
We weren’t like having sex in an elevator or a coat closet or anything, we weren’t really experimenting. I recently got out of a three year relationship, the longest relationship I’ve had, and I would consider her to be the best sex of my life. By the time I was getting up to leave, she was already on the phone with her next client. She looked at me very seriously and said, “Oh, baby, you busted already?” and I said, “Is that a problem?” and she was like, “You’re only allowed to bust one time.” Keep in mind I’d paid for an hour of time and this was about seven minutes in. After a couple minutes she had me turn over and she started rubbing herself on me again and I shot a load in like two seconds. She and I both got naked and I got on the bed face down and then she just kind of started rubbing her body over me. She told me to leave my “donation” on the table so I paid my $100 or $120, which would pay for an hour of her time. So I found a place at the mall about 10 minutes from my parents house and I went to this hotel next to the mall and I went up to the second floor and a woman who was in her 30s or 40s was there again, I was 18 at this point. It was freshman year of college, spring break, and I was waiting for my fantasy baseball draft and I was really bored and horny and so I looked up “happy ending massages” or something like that and the websites made it very clear you weren’t going to have sex with the women. They all knew my situation.īefore I lost my virginity, I paid to get a happy ending massage. I headed back to my room to get something and their door was open and they were drinking and then we started talking and the next thing you know I’m losing my virginity. I thought she was cute, but I didn’t think anything of it. We were living in a co-ed dorm and lived right next to these girls, and I remember one of my friends earlier in the night was talking about how he really wanted to sleep with the girl who lived next door to me. I was living with two other guys and it was one of the first weeks of school. I was 21 and it was a drunken one night stand. Soon after that I was at my middle school orientation it was the first day of middle school and the kids from all the feeder elementary schools were in an assembly and I remember seeing this girl and for the first time I wanted to do something more than just hold her hand or kiss her. I thought it was funny, but I was definitely, definitely intrigued as well. I started watching it myself a few years later, but that was definitely an interesting experience for sure, standing around a computer with a number of other guys. I remember thinking, “Oh, this is kind of funny.” That was my first reaction to porn. His older brother was two years older than us, and he showed a big group of us porn. One of the first times I watched porn, I was over at a buddy’s house, this was probably in fifth grade. For Sex Lives, GQ speaks with someone about their entire sex life up to this point and how their sexuality has evolved.